Getting Through August
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My brother is remarkably cool and calm about it even while being dismayed. I’m glad he doesn’t have the hair-trigger temper he had as a kid. I’m glad he’s more of a grown-up than I, even though he’s 2-1/2 years younger. He just shook off my attempt at an apology, and he will be back tomorrow or the next day to take care of the mirror problem.
I’d be awfully grateful if I could borrow your brother once he’s finished at your house… got a <ahem! couple of odd jobs that need doing round here too. Anyone know where that ASAPM jet has gotten to? (end of blog entry) A relatively minor home repair, and I decide I’m a horrible failure as a human being. Sheesh.
<panto mode Oh no you’re not! </panto mode {{{Deirdre}}} Anyway, here’s sympathy and empathy and all the good -pathies,
And from me too! {{{Arthur}}} Vashti — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm
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2) On a similar note, I recently noticed that my air conditioner was dripping condensation into the window sill, instead of outside like it’s supposed to. The inside of the wooden window sill gets damp and has also developed a little mold. I’ve examined the situation, but don’t see anything I can do other than use the AC sparingly (which is difficult in a city experiencing heat waves in a home that’s like a brick oven). So, one more moisture related wall issue that is stressing me out.
Assuming this is a window unit, the condensation is supposed to run through a small channel to the outside. That channel often gets blocked with dirt and you have your problem. I don’t know how handy you are, but if you can remove the unit and take it outside where there is a hose and a nozzle, remove the front and using the hardest stream of water clean out the bottom real good, hopefully it will open the blockage. I’ve also removed the unit from it’s metal "box" and then can give it a good cleaning on the end that sticks outside also. There may be leaves and all kinds of junk in there. When finished, sit it level and pour some water in the front to see if it finds its way out the proper route. If not, keep spraying, trying to find that little channel and get it cleaned out. Let it dry for a day before using it just to be safe in case you got water in the electrical controls. Tono — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm
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Thanks to everyone for your replies and suggestions. Sorry for not replying to everyone individually, but I’m just feeling a bit overwhelmed at the moment. I did check the AC several times. It is tilted properly, but sits in old and deep window sill and I can’t seem to locate where it drains the condensation. Chances are this has been happening all this summer, and the last, but I simply didn’t notice it until a few days ago. The only solution I’ve been able to come up with is using the AC sparingly (I set the temperature a bit higher and try to use only the fan on cooler nights). The room is now in the low 80s F instead of the upper 70s (tolerable if I don’t do much). The sill and wall have not entirely dried, but a notable improvement moisture-wise. Regarding the roof, the house does not have an attic. It’s a century-old, small, two story town house with flat black tar roof (i.e., the brick oven analogy). The roof can only be accessed with a 25-foot ladder and, even if I had such a ladder, I would have trouble with the height right now. I have been trying to phone that agency for help with these home issues, but I keep getting a recording that simply says their message box is full. Seems like the demand is much higher than what they are able to provide. I’ll just have to keep trying and hope I can get through one day soon. The situation is very frustrating. After paying for roof work and a decent AC last year, I’m still getting stressed out over rain and summer heat. Anxiety-wise, this provokes "loss of control" issues. I related a lot to last night’s episode of Monk. Without spoiling the plot, he seemed to be getting over some major fundamental issues when, suddenly, an unexpected stressor stirs everything up again. (moan) Oh well. I’ll just have to try not to get too worked up and gradually try to address the problems as best I can. Many thanks to everyone for your support. Very Best Wishes, Arthur — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm
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This reply is from Dawn Problems like these may not seem a big deal to most people, but they stress me out to the point where I feel paralyzed (extremely bad cognitive dysfunction). Oh well, I just felt like venting a bit. Very Best Wishes, Arthur
Arthur, I am so sorry that you are having such a rough time! I know exactly what you mean, because I am exactly the same way. It’s the little things that kill, isn’t it? Any little repair that needs done, or problem that arises with the house, car, etc, freaks me out to the point where I just withdraw and can’t think. I can handle BIG things, like major crises (what IS the plural of crisis?), but those little things get me every single time. I am under almost constant stress because my home is not as clean as it used to be because I have an eight year old daughter who loves to make messes. I’m working on loosening up, but it’s been eight years now and I still freak out, so I don’t have much hope for myself
. So I’m with you. Those problems seem like a big deal to me, and I totally understand your reaction to them. It’s somewhat of a relief to know I’m not the only one, but I wish no one else had to suffer like this. ((((((((((((((Arthur))))))))))))))) Dawn ~*~"It’s the crazy ones that have all the good pills"~*~ ~~Kim Cattrall — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm
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Hi Arthur, So sorry you’re dealing with crappy things like this. I know exactly what you’re talking about. The small things that would mildly annoy most people make us feel so crazy. The ‘normies’ set about doing what needs to be done, and we become paralyzed and overwhelmed. Money being tight always adds to my apoplexy. My brother offered to do a little repair for us to save us money, and, well… here’s a little something from my blog entry of yesterday (I"m too freakin’ lazy to type it again, so I’m copying and pasting <LOL) : StupidStupidSTUPID!! I did something stupid. As a consequence, my brother is having to do a lot of unnecessary work and deal with a huge broken mirror. What I should have done, had I been in focus: tell him the only thing we needed for the bathroom lights to work is replacing the dimmer switch. Instead I was not at all in a state of mindfulness when Mom told him we needed new light fixtures in the bathroom. He went to Lowe’s – twice – to get everything he needed. He was in the process of attaching the fixture to the wires that came out of the wall from behind the large mirror over the sink when he saw he needed just an inch more wire, so he pulled up on it and cracked the mirror. The a–hole who installed the mirror didn’t just use the little clip things and bottom brackets – he glued the f-cker to the wall. I suspect the a–hole in question is named R____ M______, the muscle-brained former owner of this condo. I base this assumption on the evidence of other stupid installations and remodeling that we know he did. Like cutting a door between the master bedroom and the garage. I suspect on nights he couldn’t sleep he slipped out to his red ‘vette and had unnatural relations with it. But none of that is what matters now. What matters is my absence of mindfulness when a key decision was made. Just a simple switch replacement and none of this would have happened. I took a pill because once I realized my role in this mayhem the anxiety attack swooped in and bit me in the ass. I’m rapidly slipping into an abnormally quiet state. My brother is remarkably cool and calm about it even while being dismayed. I’m glad he doesn’t have the hair-trigger temper he had as a kid. I’m glad he’s more of a grown-up than I, even though he’s 2-1/2 years younger. He just shook off my attempt at an apology, and he will be back tomorrow or the next day to take care of the mirror problem. (end of blog entry) A relatively minor home repair, and I decide I’m a horrible failure as a human being. Sheesh. Anyway, here’s sympathy and empathy and all the good -pathies, Deirdre – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I’ve been getting very stressed out lately. Many of us know how anxiety disorders can make us more vulnerable to environmental stressors. It’s not just being more sensitive to any kind of environmental stress, but the complications that come with elevated anxiety such as obsessing and cognitive dysfunction. Below are my current major examples. 1) There is a small leak in the back of my house which never seems to get fixed by the roofing contractors. It doesn’t seem major, but bad enough to start some mold which I’m now fighting. Every time there is any significant rain, my stomach gets in knots, my brain turns to clay and I breakdown to the point where I can only lay down on the couch like a zombie. With so much rain lately, and it being Hurricane season, this has been a major stressor. 2) On a similar note, I recently noticed that my air conditioner was dripping condensation into the window sill, instead of outside like it’s supposed to. The inside of the wooden window sill gets damp and has also developed a little mold. I’ve examined the situation, but don’t see anything I can do other than use the AC sparingly (which is difficult in a city experiencing heat waves in a home that’s like a brick oven). So, one more moisture related wall issue that is stressing me out. Money is tight, so I can’t simply hire contractors every time such things happen. I did hear about a city program providing roof and window services for elderly and, I think, disabled people. I managed to jot down the phone number and plan to give them a call. Problems like these may not seem a big deal to most people, but they stress me out to the point where I feel paralyzed (extremely bad cognitive dysfunction). Oh well, I just felt like venting a bit. Very Best Wishes, Arthur
– The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I’ve been getting very stressed out lately. Many of us know how anxiety disorders can make us more vulnerable to environmental stressors. It’s not just being more sensitive to any kind of environmental stress, but the complications that come with elevated anxiety such as obsessing and cognitive dysfunction. Below are my current major examples. 1) There is a small leak in the back of my house which never seems to get fixed by the roofing contractors. It doesn’t seem major, but bad enough to start some mold which I’m now fighting. Every time there is any significant rain, my stomach gets in knots, my brain turns to clay and I breakdown to the point where I can only lay down on the couch like a zombie. With so much rain lately, and it being Hurricane season, this has been a major stressor. 2) On a similar note, I recently noticed that my air conditioner was dripping condensation into the window sill, instead of outside like it’s supposed to. The inside of the wooden window sill gets damp and has also developed a little mold. I’ve examined the situation, but don’t see anything I can do other than use the AC sparingly (which is difficult in a city experiencing heat waves in a home that’s like a brick oven). So, one more moisture related wall issue that is stressing me out. Money is tight, so I can’t simply hire contractors every time such things happen. I did hear about a city program providing roof and window services for elderly and, I think, disabled people. I managed to jot down the phone number and plan to give them a call. Problems like these may not seem a big deal to most people, but they stress me out to the point where I feel paralyzed (extremely bad cognitive dysfunction). Oh well, I just felt like venting a bit. Very Best Wishes, Arthur
Hello Arthur,boy can I relate ! This ,in itself, small things can become a mountain filled with anxiety – stress and in the end ‘breakdown to the point where I can only lay down on the couch like a zombie’ And even lying there your mind is a runaway train. *Doing* something like getting that phone number is a good thing An action instead of feeling paralyzed I do hope thay can help you out. Otherwise an anouncement in a local paper or on the internet can give you some technical support. You might be surprise how many people are willing to help
Much love from Anna — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I’ve been getting very stressed out lately. Many of us know how anxiety disorders can make us more vulnerable to environmental stressors. It’s not just being more sensitive to any kind of environmental stress, but the complications that come with elevated anxiety such as obsessing and cognitive dysfunction. Below are my current major examples. 1) There is a small leak in the back of my house which never seems to get fixed by the roofing contractors. It doesn’t seem major, but bad enough to start some mold which I’m now fighting. Every time there is any significant rain, my stomach gets in knots, my brain turns to clay and I breakdown to the point where I can only lay down on the couch like a zombie. With so much rain lately, and it being Hurricane season, this has been a major stressor. 2) On a similar note, I recently noticed that my air conditioner was dripping condensation into the window sill, instead of outside like it’s supposed to. The inside of the wooden window sill gets damp and has also developed a little mold. I’ve examined the situation, but don’t see anything I can do other than use the AC sparingly (which is difficult in a city experiencing heat waves in a home that’s like a brick oven). So, one more moisture related wall issue that is stressing me out. Money is tight, so I can’t simply hire contractors every time such things happen. I did hear about a city program providing roof and window services for elderly and, I think, disabled people. I managed to jot down the phone number and plan to give them a call. Problems like these may not seem a big deal to most people, but they stress me out to the point where I feel paralyzed (extremely bad cognitive dysfunction). Oh well, I just felt like venting a bit. Very Best Wishes, Arthur
Hi Arthur, I don’t have the answers for you but wanted to say "Hello"
I hope that bought a small smile to your face! Caz — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I’ve been getting very stressed out lately. Many of us know how anxiety disorders can make us more vulnerable to environmental stressors. It’s not just being more sensitive to any kind of environmental stress, but the complications that come with elevated anxiety such as obsessing and cognitive dysfunction. Below are my current major examples. 1) There is a small leak in the back of my house which never seems to get fixed by the roofing contractors. It doesn’t seem major, but bad enough to start some mold which I’m now fighting. Every time there is any significant rain, my stomach gets in knots, my brain turns to clay and I breakdown to the point where I can only lay down on the couch like a zombie. With so much rain lately, and it being Hurricane season, this has been a major stressor.
Is it possible that you or someone else could get into the attic (assuming that you have one) to trace the route that the water could be following to get to where it makes itself obvious? Water can travel a long distance along a beam and it would take a keen eye to follow the track. 2) On a similar note, I recently noticed that my air conditioner was dripping condensation into the window sill, instead of outside like it’s supposed to. The inside of the wooden window sill gets damp and has also developed a little mold. I’ve examined the situation, but don’t see anything I can do other than use the AC sparingly (which is difficult in a city experiencing heat waves in a home that’s like a brick oven). So, one more moisture related wall issue that is stressing me out.
If the airconditioner is installed at the correct angle and water is still coming onto the sill, I suspect that the drain for the airconditioner might be plugged. The window unit that we had would tend to do this also if the air filter wasn’t clean…I think that it was icing up and melting where it shouldn’t. Money is tight, so I can’t simply hire contractors every time such things happen. I did hear about a city program providing roof and window services for elderly and, I think, disabled people. I managed to jot down the phone number and plan to give them a call.
Give them a call right away in case they have a waiting list. You wouldn’t want to wait any longer than you have to. Problems like these may not seem a big deal to most people, but they stress me out to the point where I feel paralyzed (extremely bad cognitive dysfunction).
They would be a very big deal to me! I empathize with how you feel. Oh well, I just felt like venting a bit. Very Best Wishes, Arthur
(((((Arthur))))) — Ron P Home Page: http://fp.kwic.com/~rwebb Just remember….if the world didn’t suck, we’d all fall off. — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm
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<Gently snipped ::2) On a similar note, I recently noticed ::that my air conditioner was dripping ::condensation into the window sill, instead ::of outside like it’s supposed to. The inside ::of the wooden window sill gets damp and has ::also developed a little mold. I’ve examined ::the situation, but don’t see anything I can ::do other than use the AC sparingly (which ::is difficult in a city experiencing heat ::waves in a home that’s like a brick oven). ::So, one more moisture related wall issue ::that is stressing me out. I had this happen too a few years ago! You may need to tilt your AC slightly back. ~*~Water leaks out the front of the unit It is normal for water to collect in the lower base of an air conditioner. See the section entitled: "There is water sloshing around inside." If water leaks out the front it is usually because the unit is tilted forward in the window frame. All air conditioners should be installed so they tilt slightly back to allow for proper removal of the condensation collected.~*~ http://www.repairclinic.com/0088_16_1.asp#Level1_9 You can apply some vinegar to your window sill. It should get rid of the mold without having to use bleach. ::I did hear about a city program providing ::roof and window services for elderly and, ::I think, disabled people. I managed to jot ::down the phone number and plan to give them ::a call. I hope this works out for you. If it doesn`t, maybe you could barter services with a repairmen or contractor. I know you real good at web design, etc. ::Problems like these may not seem a big deal ::to most people, but they stress me out to ::the point where I feel paralyzed (extremely ::bad cognitive dysfunction). I hear you and also understand what you are going through. I`m glad you reached out to us here. I hope things start getting better for you soon! Just think, those lovely crisp Autumn days are just around the corner. (((((Arthur))))) Jackie ~*~"It’s the crazy ones that have all the good pills"~*~ ~~Kim Cattrall — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm
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Oh Arthur, so sorry all this is happening. I know how you feel. I’ve been experiencing very high anxiety for over a month now. Sending you calm vibes. {{{{{Arthur}}}}} Love, Di
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I’ve been getting very stressed out lately. Many of us know how anxiety disorders can make us more vulnerable to environmental stressors. It’s not just being more sensitive to any kind of environmental stress, but the complications that come with elevated anxiety such as obsessing and cognitive dysfunction. Below are my current major examples. 1) There is a small leak in the back of my house which never seems to get fixed by the roofing contractors. It doesn’t seem major, but bad enough to start some mold which I’m now fighting. Every time there is any significant rain, my stomach gets in knots, my brain turns to clay and I breakdown to the point where I can only lay down on the couch like a zombie. With so much rain lately, and it being Hurricane season, this has been a major stressor. 2) On a similar note, I recently noticed that my air conditioner was dripping condensation into the window sill, instead of outside like it’s supposed to. The inside of the wooden window sill gets damp and has also developed a little mold. I’ve examined the situation, but don’t see anything I can do other than use the AC sparingly (which is difficult in a city experiencing heat waves in a home that’s like a brick oven). So, one more moisture related wall issue that is stressing me out. Money is tight, so I can’t simply hire contractors every time such things happen. I did hear about a city program providing roof and window services for elderly and, I think, disabled people. I managed to jot down the phone number and plan to give them a call. Problems like these may not seem a big deal to most people, but they stress me out to the point where I feel paralyzed (extremely bad cognitive dysfunction). Oh well, I just felt like venting a bit. Very Best Wishes, Arthur
– The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm
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I’ve been getting very stressed out lately. Many of us know how anxiety disorders can make us more vulnerable to environmental stressors. It’s not just being more sensitive to any kind of environmental stress, but the complications that come with elevated anxiety such as obsessing and cognitive dysfunction. Below are my current major examples. 1) There is a small leak in the back of my house which never seems to get fixed by the roofing contractors. It doesn’t seem major, but bad enough to start some mold which I’m now fighting. Every time there is any significant rain, my stomach gets in knots, my brain turns to clay and I breakdown to the point where I can only lay down on the couch like a zombie. With so much rain lately, and it being Hurricane season, this has been a major stressor. 2) On a similar note, I recently noticed that my air conditioner was dripping condensation into the window sill, instead of outside like it’s supposed to. The inside of the wooden window sill gets damp and has also developed a little mold. I’ve examined the situation, but don’t see anything I can do other than use the AC sparingly (which is difficult in a city experiencing heat waves in a home that’s like a brick oven). So, one more moisture related wall issue that is stressing me out. Money is tight, so I can’t simply hire contractors every time such things happen. I did hear about a city program providing roof and window services for elderly and, I think, disabled people. I managed to jot down the phone number and plan to give them a call. Problems like these may not seem a big deal to most people, but they stress me out to the point where I feel paralyzed (extremely bad cognitive dysfunction). Oh well, I just felt like venting a bit. Very Best Wishes, Arthur — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm
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